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Post by poshfrock on Nov 10, 2007 23:28:14 GMT 1
Just a thought, but maybe hes feeling a bit neglected or not the center of your world and hes is saying stuff like this to you.
When really he saying "hello!! I'm feeling a bit insecure here" so ill say stuff to shake you up at little and make you think some one else may be interested!!
may be way off track, but it could be an angle to conside. Maybe he is getting a bit scared about getting older, its not a women only thing!
BB Posh x
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Post by gwenifer on Nov 11, 2007 14:47:48 GMT 1
Give him a slap!! Whatever his insecuritys there no need for disrespect!!
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Post by evadarkness on Nov 11, 2007 18:15:01 GMT 1
I dont think he means to disrespect. When I confronted him about the 'older woman' he said he just never thought of me as being that age and always thought of me as being the same age as him (which is a bit nice as I am 10 years older).
Some times I feel we both want to be married to a certain type of person, which neither of us is. Then I have times where I just cant see what he is getting out of it. I am not an easy person to live with and the last 2 years have been the pits.
Also have issue with him repeating behaviour. He does something, we have a big to do about it, he says he will try to improve, then a few weeks later it starts all over again. When confronted he will say he is not doing it on purpose but being a psych minor I find it hard to believe some one would repeat something over and over if they were not getting something out of it.
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Post by gwenifer on Nov 11, 2007 22:37:58 GMT 1
The trouble with men is they've got a short attention span, sorry blokes but its true!! They get stuck in patterns of behaviour and can't seem to get out of it. Most of the men I have ever known are like that, they say they will change something and they do for a few weeks then drop back into the old pattern as if nothing had happened. I don't think that its that he's getting something out of it, he probably just forgets.
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Post by sleepyowl on Nov 12, 2007 10:22:20 GMT 1
We are not easily distr ooh shiny things
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Post by gwenifer on Nov 12, 2007 18:33:51 GMT 1
I rest my case M'lud!!!
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Post by gwenifer on Nov 12, 2007 18:34:46 GMT 1
Just a thought, he's not a Leo is he?
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Boojum
Spends too much time here
This film's crap. Let's slash the seats.
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Post by Boojum on Nov 13, 2007 12:45:11 GMT 1
I am appalled and out...
THERE ARE PIGEONS OUTSIDE MY WINDOW! ;D
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