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Post by ian on Sept 17, 2007 19:40:36 GMT 1
I am wondering again why is it that some sad lonely (friendless, familyless) lying twisted . . . . can once again open a 'closed' forum up for the sole purpose of tormenting a well known and well liked member of the Pagan community because of their sorrow and distress, yes this person may have fathered 8 kids but lets have a look at how many of them still speak to him, they HATE him with a vengance, he dont get to see his wonderful grandchildren because of the shit he has caused to his son and his son's wife. Everytime he has some garbage to spout he opens his pathetic little (no members, exempt himself under different guises) forum, goes on about some shit or other and then closes it again, I am sick of this person hiding behind his computer, YOU KNOW WHERE I LIVE FAT MAN, COME ROUND IF YOU HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY, but then again sorry, I forgot your bottle goes when you haven't got a computer keyboard in front of you I apologise to those on this forum that this does not apply to, but this person is and has put the good name of Paganism in the Midlands through the gutter for far to long now and I for one am sick and tired of staying silent, while he spouts lies and bullshit about me and others on here (they know who they are, obviously). I simply feel it is time that this person was put into his rightfull place, the looneybin, where he can talk to himself along with the rest of the loons
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Post by admin on Sept 17, 2007 19:57:49 GMT 1
Hi Ian
Whilst I understand your annoyance, this person has run out of friends and now he's rapidly running out of family too. The lengths he is going to to wind us up are quite laughable and just show him for the sad obsessive loser he is.
I've been sent some stuff off his forum and it looks as if either he or his twisted "girlfriend" are sending texts pretending to be me, or lying about receiving such texts. How utterly obsessive and bizarre is that?
As with all things in life, living well is the best way of getting at someone. Remember that next time you're holding your precious grandchild and ranting about your kids annoying you.
Our personal sorrow has been put sharply into perspective by our good friend, Barbara's, sad loss. I am lucky that I have an extended family and lots of friends around me, as is Barbara, and we draw strength from that. Most of my own grandchildren are too young to have figured out the non-genetic nature of our relationship, to them I'm just "Grandma" and I love them to bits.
Unfortunately, "loony bins" are not that common nowadays and there are many people out there who would benefit from better psychiatric care, but alas, current legislation is against them.
These people are to be pitied. Personally I feel very sorry for him, even if his troubles are all of his own making. Ignore him and move on, life is far too short to waste precious moments worrying about what worthless people think.
bb Rhiannon
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Post by ian on Sept 18, 2007 6:12:43 GMT 1
Exactly what Drach said, actually being a parent / grandparent to a child is so much better than simply being related to the child and not caring anything about it, it simply being a method of getting extra revenue from the state. Be a good grandparent to them Rhiannon, they will love you more for it and your bond will be unbreakable
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Post by hal on Sept 18, 2007 10:51:29 GMT 1
Who is this person you are talking about?
If youve gotta pm me to tell me then so be it
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Post by warrierwitch on Sept 18, 2007 11:00:16 GMT 1
I agree with you all he is just totally sick better ignored.
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Post by admin on Sept 18, 2007 11:55:09 GMT 1
Who is this person you are talking about? Just one of the pratts that paganism occasionally attracts. He has nothing to do with his time except rant against those who are actually doing stuff in the community rather than posting about how big and grand they are on their own internet forum. I feel a bit sorry for him as he is such a nasty person that he has no real friends, his children leave him and have nothing to do with him as soon as they are old enough, and his wife loathes him too. I know the situation is all of his own making but I have enough compassion to feel pity. He's a bit of a joke really, okay for mild amusement, but occasionally he does say something really nasty about someone in order to provoke a reaction. He was tolerated by the pagan community whilst my husband, Martin, was friends with him, but when he turned on us, he found out just how disliked he was by the rest of the pagan community. When such self-realisation dawns people can go either one of two ways, they can either change their game plan and work on being a nice person, or the mind cannot cope and goes a little bit crazy and starts to dwell in unreality and fantasy. It's not pleasant for those who are the targets of his venom, but what can you do except laugh at it? He's not really worth wasting time and energy on, but I understand Ian's need to vent somewhere. bb Rhiannon
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Post by kharma on Sept 18, 2007 15:28:30 GMT 1
See what can I say I manage to stick to PM's when i want to vent don't I Glynis & Eileen, but even these cause trouble. He knows the situation and so do a lot of people around him and it does frustrate me when a picture of harmony is painted. But the best way to get to him is show how wonderful your life is....I know there are trolls on the board...so tell him Rowan took his first steps on friday, Alex got top marks on his spelling and is at football club as I speak, Thomas has his first day at nursery Thursday, Simon (Gary's little boy is also Blonde haired and blue eyed)is a joy to be with, and they are all the better for not knowing YOU!!!! Jo (gettin ready for abuse in the street and solicitors letters)
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Post by kharma on Sept 18, 2007 15:29:14 GMT 1
Ian what have you started ;D ;D ;D
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Post by admin on Sept 18, 2007 15:37:33 GMT 1
Jo (gettin ready for abuse in the street and solicitors letters) You might want to look in the archives about solicitors letters. bb Rhiannon
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Post by poshfrock on Sept 18, 2007 15:46:46 GMT 1
ok, not one to shy away from the truth,
there was no-ones name attached to that text.
if you want a copy will send you one, it wasn't abuse it was an opinion.
my numbers on the seax board
posh x
oh yes and whoever it is who keeps phoning me and withhelding their number don't be such a prat
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Post by admin on Sept 18, 2007 15:50:42 GMT 1
Ah - the mystery is solved! I wonder what Sean hoped to gain by pretending the text was from me? All very bizarre bb Rhiannon
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Post by poshfrock on Sept 18, 2007 16:00:23 GMT 1
I'm just glad i kept a copy of the text so that he can't make it up and change it.
not that he would off course. too honest for that !!!
and Ive got a feeling that it is not legal to put peoples personal numbers on the INTERNET without their express permission
Hmm!!!!!
posh x
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Post by poshfrock on Sept 18, 2007 16:06:17 GMT 1
yeah your right have deleted post for comments made below
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Post by admin on Sept 18, 2007 16:10:11 GMT 1
Oy - shooting fish in barrels ain't big and it ain't clever. His life is miserable enough without you adding to it. ;D
Anyway, unless there is something constructive to add to this thread then can we leave it and not waste any more time on such pathetic creatures.
Let's look forward to positive things, not backwards to mistakes and wannabees.
Thank you.
bb Rhiannon
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Post by gwenifer on Sept 18, 2007 17:56:14 GMT 1
And wouldn't he be happy to read all the discussion about him!! I have said all along that he will be left with no-one and I was right, every bit of attention you give him is glorious to him and a thorough waste of your time and energy.
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