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Post by Butterfly on Aug 7, 2007 17:53:47 GMT 1
>:(I am at my wits end! My daughter has been bullied relentlessly at school and now these girls have decided to spoil her holiday as well!! These girls have called for her with sweetness and light, then laughing and joking walked with her up to millenium green, and thats when it started, they were pushing her around, filming her and laughing at her dress sense etc etc ...She rang me as she ran home in tears! For those who know me you have heard me mention her bullying before, i just don't know what to do for the best! I really wish i was a dabbler with the darkest arts!!! I know were i'd send 'ill will'!!
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Post by admin on Aug 7, 2007 18:25:49 GMT 1
Not much I can say - dabble away!
It's worth remembering that lots of bullied children have gone on to do great things as adults, but not so many of the bullies have amounted to anything. They sound like a bunch of frightened young girls to me - anxious to point out and laugh at someone else's perceived differences in case anyone notices their own inadequacies first.
Sending hugs.
bb Rhiannon
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Post by celticwolf on Aug 9, 2007 15:54:06 GMT 1
I can completely sympathise. Our 13 year old daughter has had bullying as far back as i can remember (ive been with her for 6 years) and the school never did anything it was pathetic really! And now the holidays are here we had a problem with one girl who is half the size of our girl and we called the police, needless to say there has been nothing since then, so just keep an eye out and it may be worth getting the police to cation the individuals as a scare tactic? Also all my thoughts and hugs go to you!
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Post by kharma on Aug 9, 2007 19:55:18 GMT 1
by all means contact the police so maybe the parents of these little horrors will be notified of what there 'little angels' get up too. saves you getting your hands dirty.
Best wishes with this xxxx
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Post by celticwolf on Aug 10, 2007 10:58:59 GMT 1
On the same line of what drachenfach said, if you dont like to dapple in the darker arts then you can do something along the lines of whatever they send out return it back to themselves. I did this and it worked perfectly!
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Post by ian on Aug 10, 2007 20:56:37 GMT 1
On the other hand you could simply hide behind a fence or some bushes with a bloody big bat and ................. Sorry but bullying is one thing that really really does annoy me
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Post by duane on Aug 17, 2007 8:50:23 GMT 1
Perhaps a binding spell instead of a hex?
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Post by brumwolf on Aug 17, 2007 9:06:44 GMT 1
Hex is just another name for a spell, its just the perception is different. one persons curse is another persons blessing. Its all down to view points. if your working within that context then there is no need to, as some put it, curse or hex someone.
For example, blessing someone with empathy for nature and other creatures would have the same effect as cursing someone to feel what they have done/doing to others because we are all part of nature.
Butterfly, you do what you feel is the right thing to do.
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Post by duane on Aug 17, 2007 16:08:47 GMT 1
but hex curse is used to harm somthing, binding spell it to make the person not hurt anyone else or stop doing somthing.
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Post by brumwolf on Aug 17, 2007 17:16:01 GMT 1
I think you need to learn a few fundamentals and consider the implications of things alittle deeper.
As I said, one persons harm is another persons gain. Its all about perspectives and contexts. One persons blessing is another persons harm, or to turn is around, one persons harm is anothers blessing.
I've all ready given you an example of what I mean. Perhaps you should consider that as a starting point and just work through the implications from there. I'll give you a clue in the context of your "aversion" to causing harm.
How can blessing someone with empathy for nature and other creatures be harmful? Given the ability to empathise with others is a fundamental aspect of civilised human nature.
I'll give you another clue. There is no such thing as black or white magic. There is just magic.
W.
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Post by admin on Aug 19, 2007 8:02:17 GMT 1
Using popular culture as an example, the story of Angel from the Buffy the Vampire series. The gypsies curse Angel by giving him back his soul, which enables him to feel empathy for his victims and remorse for his terrible crimes - a fate far worse than staking him through the heart!
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Post by duane on Aug 20, 2007 18:07:08 GMT 1
at the risk of going off topic.
The gypsy tribe wanted that to happen for revange of angelus killing drucilla not because of his other victims.. but angel accapted it as his punishment for angelus's crimes. It gets really confusing If I explain it any deeper .
how did we get from bullying, to spell binding, to angelus becoming angel? .
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Post by admin on Aug 20, 2007 20:26:10 GMT 1
Erm - not to get picky Duane, but Drusilla wasn't a gypsy girl. She was the youngest daughter of a well to do family and had "second sight". Entirely different to the gypsy girl that caused the curse on Angel/us. (The SciFi channel are just doing re-runs of Angel and last week was all about Drusilla, the previous week was about the gypsy girl).
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Post by duane on Aug 21, 2007 9:49:07 GMT 1
the gypsy girl was dru cuz you see the falther mention about her i'll have to watch the epi again,
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Post by admin on Aug 21, 2007 10:16:56 GMT 1
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